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The Gift of Women in My Life

by Kelly Ketelboeter on January 7, 2011

Jen and I are part of an amazing community of thought leaders on LinkedIn and Twitter called Lead Swag. I was honored when William Powell and Georgia Feiste asked me to contribute to the Lead Swag Women’s Leadership Month along with many other inspiring women. The goal of Women’s Leadership Month is to highlight the contributions women make in leadership, recognize how women have influenced us personally or in the lives of others and the characteristics women embody in leadership today.

I am blessed to be surrounded by inspiring women AND men in my  life that have all made a difference. I am forever grateful. I hope this post will remind you of the gifts in your life.

I come from a long line of strong women that weren’t afraid to challenge the status quo.  My great grandmother got divorced in the early 1900s when divorce was completely taboo.  She believed just because it’s the way things were didn’t mean it’s the way things had to be.  My grandmother attended college at a time when a woman was “supposed” to get married and have lots of babies.  She pursued her passion and had the courage to do so.  My mom went to work to support our family when my dad fell ill in the 70s.  My dad was Mr. Mom long before society accepted that as a role for a father.  At age 27 I started my own business, when the majority of my friends were starting their families.

When I was growing up I didn’t hear the saying, “You can do whatever you want. You can be whoever you want.”  Instead that mantra was modeled for me by those in my life.  It wasn’t just a saying; it was a way of life.  I felt empowered at a young age.  I was encouraged, nurtured and challenged to do the things that brought value to my life and to the lives of those around me.

To say I have been blessed by amazing women in my life would be a gross understatement.  For the women in my life have shaped me to become someone I am proud of and someone I love.  From my mom, to my sisters, and sister-in-laws, to my business partner, my very best friends and the wonderful business women with whom I am honored to be connected.  I lean on these women in my life and I look to them as role models that help to fuel my passions, my hopes and my dreams. I would not be the woman I am today without these glorious women in my life.  Every day these women continue to help me become the best I can be as we are all a work in progress.

As I began to think about the impact each of these women have in my life I discovered each of them had similar characteristics that have shaped who I am today.

To discover the four characteristics that have made an impact in my life click here.

Thanks for stopping by!

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Respect THIS.

by Jen Kuhn on October 25, 2010

Self-absorbed leaders of the world: You are done.  Over-cooked. Fried. Put a fork in yourself.  Or, please, seriously, please, let me. 

Just this weekend I heard a supposed “leader” DEMAND respect from his “subordinate”! *Eavesdrop moment*: “You must respect me! I am your BOSS.” The demand was based solely upon TITLE.  Seriously?  That works for you?  Excuse me while I throw up a little in my mouth.

R-E-S-P-E-C-T!  Find out what it means to me!

Let’s start with:

Behaviors: Don’t say one thing and live/do another. Your title can sit in the bottom of my toilet…with the rest of the sh-tuff.  EARN respect.

Attitude: Ummm, nursery rhymes have a “king of the castle”.  Move on, please. EARN respect.

Fear: You may be the big dog, but you ain’t the only dog.  By the way, you might want to wipe that drool, you’re starting to froth at the mouth. EARN respect.

Ultimatums: Trump! You lose! Play that big card and wait til you see what I’ve been holding.  Don’t ever mistake my compassion for weakness. EARN respect.

Duplicity: If you choose to live without integrity, don’t expect me to follow along.  You are so FLAGRANT you’re see-through.  EARN respect.

If you must demand respect, you have NOT earned respect.  Get a clue.  See a therapist.  Or, could you just this once, for old times sake, be self-reflective? Nah, see a therapist.  Who are we kidding here?  If you think your title/name/job/status/etc EARNS you respect, then you need to start over.  Way over. If you don’t know what I’m saying, then this probably applies to YOU!

Blind compliance brings abuse of power, genocide, terrorism, ignorance, enabling, fear, corruption and all sorts of nastiness.  If you CANNOT or CHOOSE NOT to lead with integrity, compassion, morality, nobility, honesty, gentleness, understanding, empathy, sincerity, transparency, insight, wisdom, peace, courage, dignity,  perception and acceptance…THEN PLEASE, step down.  Accept who you are, and move along.  We NEED more.  We do NOT judge.  We just know what we NEED.

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Take It To Twitter

by Kelly Ketelboeter on August 11, 2010

I am one who believes in the power of feedback.  Whether its positive or negative, it is a gift.  It is an opportunity to grow and to learn.  A chance to refine skills and build knowledge.  That’s why I am always shocked when companies ignore, dismiss or make excuses when a customer provides valuable feedback and insight.

A few weeks ago my niece was visiting from Texas.  Of course it isn’t a trip to Chicago without touring as much of our fabulous city as you can.  As we were strolling down State Street we were hit with the wonderful aroma of freshly popped popcorn.  It smelled so good we could practically taste it.  It didn’t take long for us to find the source of the smell as we ran right into Garrett Popcorn on Randolph and State.  The line was out the door.  Which isn’t surprising because Garrett Popcorn is a Chicago tradition that spans 60 years.  Being the popcorn connoisseur that I am, I convinced my niece that this popcorn was worth the wait.  So we waited.  And waited. And waited. All while being teased by the aroma of freshly popped popcorn.   We placed our order for the buttery popcorn and were told they had to make a new batch.  A new batch? I was thrilled that we were going to get a fresh new batch of buttery popcorn!  After waiting some more amid the craziness of the store we finally got our popcorn.  We made our way to the Metra station to head home and couldn’t wait to sit down and devour our popcorn.

We found our seat on the train and I prepared my niece for the ultimate popcorn experience.  We opened the bag, took a handful and shoved it in our mouths.  I couldn’t believe what I was tasting.  It was the worst popcorn I have ever had.  I think they lost control of the salt shaker or something because the popcorn was so salty our lips and eyes were burning.  My niece questioned my credibility and my popcorn connoisseur status.  She couldn’t believe I thought that this was the best popcorn in Chicago.  And for that matter, neither could I.  We were disappointed to say the least.

When we got home I decided I wasn’t going to simply throw away our popcorn, maybe the saltiness would subside after a few hours.  Hey a girl can dream!  But no, it still tasted like complete garbage.  Since we were now back home in the suburbs there wasn’t much we could do.  Our dreams of popcorn had been crushed.  So I took action.  I got on-line and found the phone number for Garrett Popcorn and placed a call to their customer service line.  I felt the company had a right to know about our experience.  I personally have made a commitment to make the invisible, visible.  And that wasn’t going to happen if I didn’t speak up.

I was greeted with a less than enthusiastic hello from a customer service rep in the call center at Garrett Popcorn.  I told her my problem and expressed my extreme disappointment.  She took my name and my phone number and that was it.  I had to ask, “what’s going to happen next?”  She told me someone would get back to me.  Three days later I hadn’t heard a word from Garrett Popcorn and I was really frustrated.  So I decided to test their customer service using a different venue.  I took it twitter.  Here was my tweet:

Had the WORST buttery popcorn from @garrettpopcorn Called comp, didn’t get an apology, was told someone would call, still waiting #fail

Within 2 hours I received a Tweet from Michelle who handles the Twitter account for Garrett Popcorn.  She also called me, sent me a direct message on Twitter and sent an email.  Talk about a fast response and covering all the bases.  I spoke with Michelle and shared all the invisible factors during our experience with the hope of making these factors visible to management.  After all Garrett Popcorn prides themselves on having the freshest, most delicious popcorn.  In fact right on their website it says that customer satisfaction remains their highest priority.  Really?  Someone might want to let that customer service rep in the call center in on that secret.  I certainly didn’t feel like it was a priority at all let alone their highest priority.

I am happy to say that Michelle at Garrett Popcorn addressed my concerns, apologized, empathized and offered a solution.  Within 24 hours I had a huge tin of buttery popcorn delivered to my home.  I was hesitant to take the first bite after my last experience.  But that didn’t last for long!  This was the buttery popcorn I had bragged about to my niece.  This was the buttery popcorn that Garrett is known for.  This was the 60 year Chicago tradition I was trying to share with my niece.  After all is said and done, Garrett came through for me.  Or should I say, Michelle at Garrett came through for me.  You see, it’s the people of an organization that make an organization great even when the product fails to deliver.  So thank you to Michelle for responding to my tweet and for turning around the experience I had at Garrett Popcorn.  I hope I was able to help Garrett Popcorn see what is visible to their customers but yet invisible to management.

Bottom Line:  Take the time to provide feedback.  It’s the only way we can make the invisible, visible.  And if you don’t get a response, well…take it to Twitter!

What experiences have you had with companies on Twitter?  What experiences have you had with a company when you provided feedback with the hope to make the invisible, visible?

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Twitter, LinkedIn and Lead Change

by Kelly Ketelboeter on June 22, 2010

It was January 2009 when I entered the world of Twitter.  I was not convinced of its value, unsure how it really worked and wondered who on earth would want to follow me?!  I checked out all the Twitter resources on how to contribute, how to gain followers and basic Twitter etiquette.  Everyday I learned something new, connected with amazing people and began to see the value of Twitter. Of course I became a bit obsessed with reaching 100 followers and then 500 and then 1,000 and now I don’t even keep track.  In the beginning I had to force myself to tweet 3 times a day.  Now I am a tweeting fool.  I hate missing a day on Twitter.  It’s a chance to exchange information, learn from others, make new contacts and friends, yes friends.

Early on in my tweeting I followed Mike Henry Sr. What struck me about Mike was his willingness to connect, share and encourage.  So when Mike started tweeting about the Lead Change Group he started on LinkedIn, I jumped at the opportunity to become part of the community dedicated to leading change.  The Lead Change Group is a community of amazing people applying character-based leadership to make a positive difference.  The purpose of the group resonated with me.  For me, it started on Twitter, crossed over to LinkedIn and has continued to grow.  The Lead Change is the most active community I am a part of.  The members of the group support each other, contribute to each others success and most importantly they lead by example for character-based leadership.

I have the honor of co-hosting monthly Lead Change webinars with Mike Henry Sr.  The purpose of the monthly Lead Change webinars is to showcase our members talents and their work.  They share research, key note speeches, training and experiences all based on leading change.  Through these calls I have met some unbelievable folks, learned so much and have a renewed hope that true leaders do exist.  The monthly webinars was just the start of bringing the Lead Change community together.  In February, several members of the group met in Florida for LeaderPalooza.  Mike has started hosting a weekly BlogTalkRadio book review show.  He has also started the Lead Change Roundtables.  Of course LinkedIn is always lively with discussions, questions and news posts.  This week Mike is kicking off a new BlogTalkRadio show to showcase and highlight Lead Change group members.  I am thrilled to announce that I will be the first guest interview!!  I hope you will join us this Thursday, June 24 at 3 pm Eastern. Get the details here.

The moral of the story, is you never know the true value of something until you try, participate and add value.  If I had let my lack of knowledge and understanding for Twitter stop me from using this awesome social media tool I would have never met Mike Henry Sr. or any of the other Lead Change Group members.  I would not have been afforded the opportunity to learn, contribute and share.  I continue to be inspired by the Lead Change community and the group has given me way more than I have given them.  While you may not see the value at the time, my advice, give it a chance, you never know what you might find.  You have everything to gain and nothing to lose!

How have you used Twitter or LinkedIn to develop relationships, learn and contribute?

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Snapshots of Inspiration

by Jen Kuhn on June 3, 2010

I believe that in order to lead, you must also be able to inspire.  Inspiration. When was the last time you were truly inspired?  When was the last time you were the source of someones’ inspiration?  I don’t believe (completely) in the idea of fate, or the common saying, “it was meant to be”.  However, over the past 3 days I’ve received gifts of inspiration when I didn’t expect them. Maybe I received them because I was open to them, or maybe it was just, dare I say it…fate.

Here are 3 examples of inspiration that I’ve encountered in 3 days:

  • My friends’ son, Jake Berman, is a young man who has completed his first year in college. While visiting their home, he shared his portfolio from a photography class. Whoa. Not only were the pictures breathtaking; his explanation of each shot was profound and poignant. I’ve known Jake since he was a toddler. His insight, compassion and talent have always inspired me (whether it was on the football field, helping a friend, wrestling in a district tournament or having a conversation). I’m confidant that no matter the path he chooses he will one day be a quiet leader, standing up for what’s right and making a difference.

  • On Twitter I saw a quote posted initially by @LeadToday (aka Steve Keating) that was retweeted by @ndefalco (aka Nicole DeFalco). The quote: “Talk is cheap. Action is priceless.”  Simple.  It spurred me into action.  I had grand plans all day. This simple quote helped me put those plans into action.  Then a few hours later, @MarkOOates (aka Mark Oakes) tweeted that he had a peak training session to prepare for a “half Ironman” which included a 1.5 mile swim, 60 mile bike ride and 7 mile run.  Someone buy this man a CAR! Who does all that in one day? Again, I was inspired.  I laced up my jogging shoes and went for a run. For the record, I jogged just a bit more than he swam.  I didn’t want to show him up. I’m cool like that. These people lead by wisdom and example.
  • On Facebook, a friend posted this video. If you do not give this video 4 minutes of your attention it will be your complete loss. I will let it speak for itself.
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What are you doing to inspire others?  Where have you found inspiration in unlikely places?  How do you incorporate inspiration into your leadership behaviors?  We would love to hear your thoughts on inspiration as an element of leadership and as one of the gifts of life.

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